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When you feel like you're "too much"

From the time I was a teenager, a belief and story was starting to form within me...⁣

that I was...⁣

"too much"⁣

too sensitive,⁣

too emotional⁣

thinking too much⁣

needing to voice my thoughts too much⁣

...⁣

and not enough _______.⁣

If I wasn't as "much" and I was just "less muted" then I would be easier to deal with.⁣

For 8 years, I escaped into relationships to find comfort.⁣

Until I realized...⁣

they weren't giving me the comfort, love and healing my heart truly needed... ⁣

and often the same repeating story would occur of feeling misunderstood and again, "too much".⁣

I was forced to begin looking at myself...⁣

on my own 😬⁣

A tough four years was spent being single, ⁣

where I spent much of it learning, healing and practicing finding greater love, peace and comfort within myself. ⁣

and to learn that no, I wasn't "too much" of anything.⁣

An astrologer and energy healer once told me in regards to relationships,⁣

"You don't need to feel completely understood by someone"⁣

"You're really complex, conceptual and analytical with a lot of emotion mixed in as well"⁣

(Best description of me I've heard lol)⁣

"Try to let go of needing to be understood. Just love, laugh and have fun"⁣